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Cinderella Revisited:
How to Survive Your
Stepfamily Without A Fairy Godmother
Although living in a stepfamily can be, at times,
very difficult and a lot of hard work, as Dr. Marshall points out, it
can also be a very rewarding experience. For a while it may be hard for
the members of two separate families to suddenly form a new family with
unfamiliar people or virtual strangers, but with patience, understanding,
and a little bit of help, it is entirely possible to survive your stepfamily
without a fairy godmother.
Among other things, Dr. Marshall discusses:
- Dealing with the sense of loss after the breakup
of a nuclear family.
- The stigma of the "broken home" label.
- Handling discipline and facing the old line, "you
can't tell me what to do, you're not my mother/father."
- The "instant love" myth.
- The realities of the blended family and co-parenting
arrangements.
- Extended family relationships, including stepsiblings
and stepgrandparents.
Both insightful and educational, Cinderella Revisited
offers practical guidance to help all members of a stepfamily understand
each other, and themselves, better.
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